Hi married DiSers. Congrats on finding true love and happiness! I'm getting married next year, my fiance and I are both mainly into Black Metal / Hardcore / Noisey shouty nonsense and whilst I'd be more than happy celebrating my nuptials with a Godflesh soundtrack I doubt my relatives would be as keen.

How did anyone else with a somewhat "anti-social" music taste deal with music at the reception? Obviously you can't please everyone but at the same time I don't want to alienate my "non music" friends and relatives. What about first dances? I heard the Peter Gabriel version of Heroes and did a little cry over it - that makes it a good choice right?