right. i know this should be on the facebook/maccabees board but there are a couple of people i want to delete on facebook but being the absolute coward i am i want to know what happens. do they get a note saying why or do i have to fill in a deletion request along the lines of:

Tom is no longer friends with xxxxx because: ...

anyway. i want it to be less obvious that this:
http://tinyurl.com/3eyzch to http://tinyurl.com/32xx4o