Had a discussion about this last night and was called an unromantic cynic for not believing it exists, not in a 'no-one truely loves anyone sense' but rather in more a 'there's no such thing as one true love thats fated/destined to be'/ I just think its lazy, excuses people from not putting any effort into relationships and doesn't recognise that the start and course of any relationship are at the whim of circumstance.

So, am I an unromantic cynic or does anyone agree with me?