Yesterday my Mr told me he would like me to make more effort with the way I look like when we first got together. I burst out crying. It made me feel sick and really upset me. I felt like I was disgusting or something. Anyway he apologised and apparently all was forgiven.

This morning I awoke in a rage and on the tube to work I was planning how to get the fucker back bad, one of my schemes involved seducing his best friend and let him catch us at it, or 'show him' by dressing like a slut and flirting with all the boys in front of his face. Anyway I calmed down and decided to just be in a mood for a little bit (I know it's annoying but I'm sad :-( )

Am I being over-sensitive? Should I try and ignore this feeling and think rationally? He was only making a suggestion really...How would you feel if your girl or boy said that to you?