any tips? i've been waiting 20 years and it still hasn't happened. it's not a case of wanting to lose weight - i look awful when i'm really thin, and i'm not huge at the moment. i eat healthily (i worked it out 60% raw fruit and veg, 30% bread, 10% chocolate), and i never really drink (about once every 3 weeks at the moment), but i'm still not happy. i have NO confidence and i can't help but look at other people's figures and wish i had their attributes.

arghhhh. i'm just really fed up of it now and obviously nothing is going to change, so really... is there anything i can do?

on a completely unrelated note, german drivers don't pay attention to traffic lights, i nearly got run over on the way home.