Okay, I've been here since September and don't recall sharing any problems I have, so here's one you can all help me with. Please.

The other week, whilst out on my regular trip to my local, I met a really lovely guy. He's an all round lovely person, and incredibly handsome. Only thing is, I don't know if he's gay. So...do I just tell him that I fancy the hell out of him, or do I leave it for longer and find out by other means (which so far has not worked)? He bought me a coffee and panini, is there not some unwritten rule that straight guys don't buy other guys paninis? I hope there is. Help!