do humans (well most of them anyway) have a pathological need to spread a secret once they gain possession of it?

I got drunk a couple of days ago with my friend Sarah at my house and ended up telling her some stuff that will eventually be told but it would really be best for it not to come out now.

Apparently she has already told the stuff to one of the people I obviously didn't want to know.

Friends can be very annoying and they ALWAYS do tgis stuff to me.

do your friends do this as well?