or do you reckon it's usually the case that, if there's no spark straight off, it's best forgotten?

from the fancied side, i reckon i always tend to know if there's any chance of me fancying someone when i meet them. i don't think i can remember a time when anyone's persistence has paid off. but maybe that's just me, and, from the fancying side, it always seems to seem like it's worth some effort if you feel that it is, even though it almost never pays off.

what do you reckon, dis? how does this usually go for you?

DISCLAIMER: this is referring to an amalgamation of several situations affecting a couple of different people, not a specific situation. so don't get nosey :)