If someone wants to explore themselves on their own, then that is fine and doesnt mean that they are one thing or another, all it means is that they have human sensuality, and have an imagination or curiosity, which are perfectly natural things for humans to have.......I mention this because, although there has been much mirth and joking about such things, it would be a shame if some readers might somehow feel that there is such association and start to limit themselves according to people making fun on a website, when all the object of fun has done that IS really unusual, is to be frank and honest in public, to a degree that either displays misplaced bravery or playful niavity, which are both kind of good.

I am sure that far more disers have done similar things, than would even dare to say after someone else has said they have done first (you would have thought that once a pioneer had blazed a trail that others would follow, but unfortunately fear of ridicule prevents most from this)

I have also experianced (at school) the feeling of pioneering a truth that others are too worried about doing, hoping that people wpuld also feel more comfy in talking about it, yet none followed, indeed they made up pathetic stories, i was so angry at them at the time that i felt that they were quite happy to continue to live their lives in fear of more than they needed to be