When your ex starts giving single word answers to your emails and doesn’t answer your phonecalls (but you know she is in constant contact with mutual acquaintances so it’s not ‘cos she’s busy)….you’re basically out of her life aren’t you?

I’ve deleted her telephone number so I am not tempted to call her as the thought of her visiting my town this week and staying with people just a 10 min walk down the road is killing me. Also the fact she is good mates f/buddies with all of her exes here and not me rubs things in a bit more.

Basically, I think I’ve done my best to be friends, but I don’t think she’s interested is she? Should I just forget she existed?

sorry about this...but answering this will enable me to get on with much more important things in my life.

You’ll really be helping me out.

I promise I’ll disappear after this thread.