so, in my first and second year i used to have this sort of creepy/sort of genius tutor. he always gave me stupidly high marks, in the 80s for my essays and that, and whenever i was upset he always used to offer to take me for coffee (i never went, i always had other people to talk to, blah blah blah). he left at the end of last year, and we've emailed a few times, but he's coming back to town on friday and has asked if i want to go for coffee. my philosophical mind says "yeah, why not?". my other mind says "isn't that a bit creepy??".

so yeah DiS, what to do?