1. share stuff you've read recently that you've found interesting or think people should know about and give a little description.
2. if you think you might start complaining about the thread or derail it with your shite, then just don't read or post in it.
3. try not to share stuff that's particularly graphic or horrific without giving warning

selfies/selfie:
http://thenewinquiry.com/essays/selfie-correction/

about the new programme starring karen gillan and how it draws on "the perennial fantasy of “fixing” female disobedience with modesty".

young people being pressured into having anal sex:
http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/health-news/women-being-coerced-into-having-anal-sex-researchers-say-with-persuasion-normalised-9671395.html
"after a respondent admitted telling his girlfriend that he had accidentally penetrated her anally, when in fact he had done it on purpose."