this thread has definitely been done before because we're a bunch of bedwetters

i wish i could be more assertive. basically have a problem with saying no to aggressive people and taking the lead when i'm around passive people.

today someone cornered me and put me in a really awkward position by asking the impossible of me in front of others. i should have said no because the thing they asked was physically and emotionally impossible for me to do but they kept getting increasingly aggressive. basically this person knew i couldn't say no there and then to them and this favour. i am going to try and confront them tomorrow but literally not going to be able to sleep tonight.