'Ello,

Bit of an odd question. A cousin of mine is getting married later in the year, in Jerusalem.

I'll be honest, I feel a bit conflicted about travelling there, spending my money there, eating and drinking myself silly there, in the middle of everything that is going on, with the atrocities t only a few miles away. I feel quite strongly about the conflict, and wonder whether it represents an ethical compromise to forget all of that and just go simply because it would be the easy thing to do and upset the least amount of family.

Wadd'ya reckon?