Ripped from this video from a man with a silly voice
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zuKV2DI9-Jg

1. You don't understand yourself
2. Or other people, and have too many unresolved neurosis.
3. You choose what you're used to not what you're happy with
4. Being single sucks
5. You value your instincts and feelings too much which isn't necessarily what marriage is about
6. Going in blind
7. No permanence of happiness
8. You'll give up on love

But it's probably alright anyway bd